Young love clearly has a reputation for being magical.
Holding hands under moonlit skies and opening up in ways that you’ve never done previously are just two of the many reasons that make it feel that way. But as time begins to pass and the inevitable challenges arise in a relationship, that intimacy can start to take a back seat. Trust, friendship and love can start to feel a world away, with the only things maintaining the relationship seeming to be unfortunately routine and habit.
If you believe intimacy in your relationship is not what it could be, there are ways to rekindle it. All hope is not lost, simply because you and your partner have found yourself in an unfulfilling hole. If this is where you and your partner are today, then you’re likely feeling some frustration, sadness and even some fear of loss. Isn’t it time to get the help you and your partner deserve?
Couples intimacy coaching is one way for you to find the spark again, and even find yourself in a relationship that’s better than it ever was before. In this article, we’ll take a look at what couples intimacy coaching can really offer you, and whether it’s right for your situation. We’ll confirm any rumors and debunk any old myths, leaving you with a clear picture of what you need to do to bring your relationship back to life again.
You Get To Evaluate Problems With New Perspectives
Every relationship has its problems. Even the one’s that are so seemingly perfect on the outside have a hidden core filled with doubt and tension. The secret to a happy relationship is the same as the secret to a happy life: learn to work through problems, rather than ignoring them.
Intimacy coaching can help you and your partner recognize the ways in which you leave the other unfulfilled.
Learn To Talk Things Over In Better Ways
Communication is vital to any relationship, which makes it all the more problematic to learn that it’s something probably lacking in yours. Deep communication, the type that occurs without judgment, happens infrequently in relationships that have lost their way.
Coaching allows you to discuss with your partner what you’re happy with, and what you’re unhappy with too. It’s a common theme in sessions to hear how refreshing it is to be able to communicate openly, and how the very act of communication alone has improved the relationship.
You Will Learn To Connect Emotionally
Some people have a difficulty connecting with others for a variety of reasons. Perhaps they’re just very introverted people, perhaps trauma has prevented them from feeling they can love freely. They may even feel as though they don’t know how to be intimate and show the type of love and affection that makes their partner feel wanted.
The good news is, learning to be intimate is possible, otherwise the field of coaching would be extinct already! The even better news is, learning to be more intimate usually produces a deeper, more profound result for those who are naturally intimate.
You Get To Learn How To Connect In More Sexually Satisfying Ways
Sex and physical closeness are important parts of any relationship, and can be the first things to deteriorate when intimacy begins to disintegrate. Some couples find that sex becomes a chore, or even a crutch that’s used to keep the relationship alive. Physical closeness should be due to a longing for connection with a partner. It should be fun, but at the same time reassuring.
Coaching can help you and your partner find out what it is you love about the other, and what it is you find attractive in them. Sex will become exciting again, as well as spontaneous. Kisses will feel genuine and meant, rather than habitual.
You’ll Discover How To Trust And Feel Comfortable
Anxiety, doubt and insecurity are rife in just about every relationship under the sun. The successful ones however, are the ones that manage to work through and cast away such feelings and replace them with comfort and appreciation for the relationship.
Learning to trust and feel comfortable in a relationship takes work, but it’s possible. When two people are committed, and receive the right type of help to get them to where they want to be, everything’s possible. Trust and comfort are the catalysts to an intimate relationship. Once they’re acquired, a union will feel stronger, and those in it more open to expression.
There Will Be Increased Focus On Satisfaction
For intimacy coaching to be considered in the first place, it’s extremely likely that there’s something unsatisfying about your relationship’s present state. Whether it’s something emotional or physical that’s lacking, learning to satisfy one another is the key to overcoming such a problem. Everybody has their own needs, some of which are incredibly subtle. Indications of whether these needs are being met do exist, but they need to be recognized.
Couples intimacy coaching will help you recognize what your partners needs are, recognize the signs that let you know whether or not they’re being met, and guide you towards the better meeting of them in future.
Is Coaching Right For You?
Only you can know whether or not couples intimacy coaching is right for you and your partner. Looking at your relationship and being honest with yourself is the best way to know for sure whether it would be something that will benefit both of you. While it’s something that needs to be talked about with your significant other, there are some tell tale signs which would indicate it would be something you’d gain a lot from doing.
If your relationship is on the rocks, if it’s stagnated, or has become visibly unfulfilling for either one or both of you, taking action to save it is a logical step.
Couples intimacy coaching has helped thousands of couples rekindle their relationship’s flame. From improved sex lives to spending more time with one another to better communication skills and emotional intimacy, the improvements in a relationship during and after cessation of coaching is profound and noticeable. While it takes work and effort on your part, the rewards are worth it. Whether your relationship is new, or established, there’s something to gain from investing in it.
If you’d like to know how I can help you and your partner move forward in healthier and more fulfilling ways, give me a call today at 970-422-6102 for your Complimentary 15 Minute Consultation.